after years of deliberation, i’m finally gonna come out as trans to most of my family and i’m both really excited and very scared! just wanted to share with someone before the big day!

Good luck! But remember…who you are is who you’ve always been. That they now know you, is no change to you, but it is a strange thing to them. They will feel some mixed emotions that while you can explain to them that they are selfish, are still real and comprehensible.

You are still you. Nothing has changed.